This is life; high and low, fallen and up, the important thing is to manage the correct attitude to any eventuality, in order to get the best out of the circumstance. When we have to love that person who complements our life, the least that concerns us is to look for faults and defects in this, because we do not fall in love with the virtues, talents or abilities that the person may possess; rather, what connects us, are the feelings that make us be part of each other. However, we can develop the ability to be tolerant and flexible, to manage with good will the attitude of recognizing, if we can improve something to achieve a progressive better functioning in the relationship. The integration of two people who decide to share their lives as a couple, requires a spirit of adaptability and tolerance on the part of both, to be able to assume with responsibility and optimism any circumstance they might face. By Derwell J Fallu